OH WOW... My day is a under no circumstances-ending tale!! initiate the day approximately 8:30ish too with a 21month previous, then substitute the newborn, feed the newborn, load/unload the dishwasher, THEN I even have my espresso (in many cases 1hr when I awaken!) then vacuum, tidy up the front room, think of of dinner, and that i browse the refrigerator, by potential of this time infant pooped, so substitute the diaper, then as i'm tossing the diaper, I see the lavatory isn't sparkling, so I sparkling the lavatory, supply the newborn her bottle, as she gets waiting for her nap (this is 12:00pm!) I lay her down, if i'm fortunate i'm getting a million hr "wreck" from her, then I consume some thing (be conscious this is my 1st meal of the day) Then she wakes up, substitute the diaper back, get her downstairs, take a seat her in front of television until eventually I restoration her lunch (a million/2 hr in many cases) she has lunch then we get waiting to flow out, using fact if we don't there is not any longer something i can do to entertain her contained in the night and he or she'll be cranky as hell. We flow out to a park, a library, the mall, everywhere is suited for the day. come back living house, initiate fixing dinner, substitute her alongside the way. She has dinner, gets a tub, we examine, hugs and kisses off to mattress (this is 8pm!) It takes her some million hr to sleep, then I even have dinner and that i sleep around 11pm and exhausted!! does this answer your question?? yet your spouse may well be depressed too.